It can be tough When Your Face Doesn’t Fit.

You think you’re good looking, characterful, charming and AVAILABLE…but somebody else, with clearly a lot less of everything, apart from the availability, gets chosen ahead of you.

And when it happens regularly, it starts to seem as though there is a pattern developing. Maybe you don’t have the qualities you thought you had after all.

Again, it all comes back to changing the things you can change, and letting everything else be as it is.

Maybe you could have pushed yourself forward more. But maybe you didn’t want to. Maybe you could do something about your face. Or maybe there was nothing that could be intentionally improved.

It’s all, as they say, good. Chill. Don’t judge yourself. Or the ones that get picked.

This is not any kind of defeatist attitude.

It’s the only way to move forward.

(And if you guessed correctly, yes, I’ve been rejected as the model for the front cover of GQ magazine YET AGAIN!)