Can I Hear Anybody?

Can anybody hear me?

Like everybody else, I'm usually under the impression that my meaning is clear. It's quite disconcerting, as time goes by, to realise quite how far away that belief is from the truth. And this has nothing to do with language, usually. Far more to do with each of our own unique expectations, biases, outlooks, nuanced interpretations, wishes, hopes and dreams.

When I, or any of us, say something in what seems to be our most straightforward manner, our words often carry a slightly different meaning than intended. Sometimes completely different. That's probably why any kind of positive change is difficult and takes so much work. It involves patience. Taking time. Not rushing.

Listening.

And then, gradually, the important question becomes: Can I hear anybody?