The Other Shoes
I’m not constrained by the need to feed the family when I write a song. It’s a hobby, not my way of putting money on the table.  And when I hear a formulaic song on the radio, I sometimes count my blessings and think:
 “There, but for the grace of  god, go I”. 
On the other hand a lot of Motown writers were writing to feed the family. The songwriting was the day job, paid at a rate.
Look at the creativity and joy that came from that. 
A hobbiest may fall short of the relentless dedication needed to produce great work. And a professional will sometimes phone it in. 
In either position it might be helpful to put ourselves in the other’s shoes.